Hi, I know you want to hear from HV, and whatever I'd add would be pure speculation:I just wanted to pass on my good wishes--to you and to her. I await HV's suggestions with interest. My mother is 77...and my recent posts will attest to her problems. I was trying, at your Mom's age, to interest mine in some of the right things that might have helped her turn things around. Now we are faced with more need to makes changes.
I'm sorry to hear of her suffering, (and your worry) and hope she is (and you) able to -soon!- get herself about it.