Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated

It does sound like you're probably more into her than visa-versa. She probably doesn't even feel like she's using you.

Beautiful women are used to people showering them with affection, gifts, services, attention ALL THE TIME! I guess when so many people try so frantically to give you things, you stop feeling guilty for accepting after awhile.

We've all been there, my friend. Take your lumps, grieve, and move on. No doubt it won't be the last time you're taken for a ride by someone of the opposite sex.

When I was younger I would date or live with many beautiful women. People were shocked when I finally married and my wife was more ordinary looking. But she was smart, funny, interesting, and serious about family. We've been married 20 years now and I'm still grateful I didn't marry some beautiful self absorbed narcissist that only cares about what in it for her at any given moment.

Remember in every relationship one person is always more in love than the other. And the one less in love is the one with the power and control. So if you want to find a partner for the long term, find one that is more into you than the other way around and you'll be the one deciding how long the relationship lasts.
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