DD, you didn't mention that you had a crush on this gal in your previous post. As Blue Rose pointed out, the answer to your question is in the first post. And, listen - stop going on about being legally blind as "ruining" your chances with this woman! This woman who is so apt to force you to get on hands and knees to search for your specs is not a catch, by a long shot! Get this through your head: the woman was getting a rush out of ridiculing you and placing you in a very humiliating predicament. She wasn't flirting with you, she was humiliating you.
Now, start focusing on refining your excellent qualities and stop feeling as if you have to settle for abuse! Cheers!