Truer words were never spoken T. We absolutely have to get out of our own way in order to heal. We need to love ourselves enough to do what we know will heal us, I am guilty of being in my own way myself. I think that on some level in life we've all been guilty of being our own worst enemy!
You're on the road girl and so I am, we are all worth it!
I can't give thoseR's because the OP didn't put our forum (Natural Healing) first, at the head of the line so to speak so I can't do it ;( but sure would if I could!