"Christians want peace as much as non-christians....but again, the focus must be God to find the unity."
Perhaps that's the central problem since the creature in the bible referred to as god is suffering from muti-personality disorder. From there people tune into that aspect that they resonate with. From my vantage point most resonate with the fear mongering, love demanding psycho in the old testament. There are many flavors from that to choose too. When you have a scriipt that fractures and created separation, what else can be expected in those whop get swept up in the doctrine.