I had no idea that you and Lovey have suffered so.
I think that we all "imagine" the people on the other side of these words. And when I read such wise words(from you, and Lovey, and others), I imagine that these words come from unfettered spirits with nary a care. That's ridiculous, isn't it? Suffering is part of this experience, yes?
Now I want to hear some words on perception of suffering.