Re: Mum passed away from COPD
I am so sorry for your loss. My sister has COPD so this is very troubling for me to see such a loss. Ambulance drivers are stupid and maybe they did contribute to your mom's loss but in the end it was her destiny. Nobody dies one minute before their time. If it was not in the ambulance, it was in the hospital.
I am sure she is in a better place. Yes, unconscious people can hear you. So any words you spoke would of been heard by your mom. Even if you did not convey your love for her, I believe she would know anyway.
You could not save your mom because it was not meant to be. Life is hard for us all. I remember the day when I was standing in the rain with no roof over my head. I had no way to go and Allah provided for me and today I live a very good life but it did take time.
It is a time for you to ask God for help and pray for your mother. I find it amazing that people are sad because a love one has died. For surely if the loved one dies and goes to heaven to be with angels and God, I would not be sad.
I know, because I lost my husband and I was not sad. It was a beautiful death and the angels took him home. Like your mom he was unconscious too.
God bless you Uly, Ask God for help and he will answer you. Pray that you can see your mom and hopefully you will.
If you want people to help you, ask nicely and people will come running to help.