"You can twist that around as much as you like my friend "
It's not me who is "twisting" anything.
I think it would be wise to work on your communication style because what you are saying now and what you were trying to relay in the forum is not in alignment. I think someone else even pointed out that you have a communication problem. They mentioned that they thought you had said at one time, that you had a neurological impairment which made it hard for you to communicate.
Your communication style may need to be altered if you want people to understand your intentions better.
No matter what you decide, I mean you no harm. I never have.