this is the time in life when you move on when you're bored. sixteen year old guys need to spread their wings during the next five years of your existence. trust me on this, you won't want to settle down with one honey even in your first years of college! there are so many girls out there, so much opportunity that awaits the guy who plays his cards right. sometimes...ain't even fair! hold everything with the "she's scared i'm breaking up with her" routine...all high school girls are scared of something. scared somebody will say something or leave 'em alone or some other immature, irrational thought. don't blame her for being a high school girl, that's what they do. that's how they think. most need the drama, some are sincere. we'll err on the side that your high schooler is sincere. doesn't change the fact that this is high school, nothing more...nothing less. you can't see the future because you haven't done anything. you haven't lived, that's why you're asking a good question. and as a guy who's really lived...keep it all surface until deep into the college years. i can predict the future...see it all too clearly. don't be a guy that clings onto high school sweethearts. live life, man! keep the ball and chain in the closet, polished and well oiled, but keep it in the closet until the right time and place. this isn't the right time and place...it's high school!!!!