you've got some cause for concern.
you're a smart cookie to not bury your head in the sand when warning signs pop up. finally, a street saavy female shows up here on curezone. first, he lied to you. second, he's got the nudie pic on the phone for casual viewing. two troubling attributes that one doesn't want in a mate. not a dealbreaker, mind you, but definately a topic to bring up front and center before going any further. as a guy i know things and one thing you women out there better get a grasp off: if we tell you a lie and get away with it...there's more to come. doesn't mean we're all lieing bastards or insensitive pricks, but we'll definately lie to calm the situation or divert attention.
i once had a photograph of my then-ex and me at a fraternity function...kept it on my bedroom dresser because i liked the way we both looked in the pic. i'm an artist-type and visuals are my thing. we both were at the top of our game in the looks department and reminded me of the great times we had together. didn't mean that i wanted her in the sack or we should get back together again...just liked the picture. well, my then-girlfriend and now-wife went along with it at first but then put the clamps down on that little item of the past. i understood and honestly, i don't know where it is today. likewise, if you had a nude pic of some guy you used to know as wallpaper on your computer screen, he'd have a problem with it. and if you told him, "it's not there, honey, i deleted big roger months ago", and it's still there...well...