I am sorry, and sad, for your seeing of your father like you described. I have been there a couple of times myself. That is what life is about. To really demonstrate How we care for loved ones.
Even sorrier for what happened in the last few days. I spent a lot of time in that forum and I can understand what you felt for someone like you, who spent more time and for a longer time, to see it come to an end. And, Not only that, you were banned for a while. It is not fare.
By the way, probably, you are the reason why I stayed in this forum.
But, is The occurrence of both turmoils at almost the same time just a coincidence, a bad luck?
I don't think so. These events were there to test you, to test your spirit. But, At the same time, they showed us what a great and good spirit you were and still are. We should all learn from you.
So, spend your time with your father, your time with Ask Moreless does not matter in comparison.
For you, as a daughter, as a mother, a grandmother, my offering to you of various versions of one of the greatest music ever