Currently in a monogamous five-year-relationship. We're both stable working professionals who have been living together for over a year. When we moved in together is was discussed that it was the first step of being engaged and starting a life together on the way to marriage. We are in our 30s. He is divorced (married only 5 years unhappily from being married too young). I've never been married and while our relationship is fine and we care for each other and get along great, he will not discuss the future at all. He turns cold and and sighs and looks upset whenever I want to discuss an engagement or marriage or moving to a bigger place. (I moved into his tiny 1 br bachelor pad). I've let discussions go to avoid fighting or stressing him out, but I'm starting to feel as if I'm being strung along, that despite his promises he just doesn't want to get married and have a family. I've tried to schedule time for us to talk about future plans and he's put off our talk all week...On my own I've decided I've got to move out and on from him. I was going to tell him this evening, now he says he wants to talk this evening. Am I fool? Advice?