I know two girls who went in different paths.
One picked a guy who went to school and worked a lot, but they got married and travel all over the world now. Hard workers eventually make it and downshift to less hours.
The other picked a pot smoking drummer who had tons of time to hang out and party. They got married and now they fight over who gets to drive the piece of crap car and he lays around all day smoking pot waiting to make it big.
Look ahead 10 years when your picking your significant other.