You ejaculate after you can't take it anymore. The cllmax should actually be more intense. The more you do it the longer you can last. Instead of just losing control you are able to hold back and last longer. During sex, for example say after 3 minutes you blow initialy,after training you feel the urge at 2 minutes and 55 seconds so you stop or pull out of the girl, take a few deep breaths until the urge has subsided, then go back, then your able to go another two minutes, you feel the urge again so you stop again, take deep breathes and go back, then you go another two minutes before you ejaculate. You would have more then doubled your time from 3 minutes to seven minutes. This exercise is based on tantric principals of cllmax control.