Hello,
So my girlfriend and I broke up last wednesday. We have been dating for a little more than a year and the break-up was kind of unexpected, but I should have seen the signs. I really love her but I didn't make her feel appreciated enough and keep her interested. We were both faithful but started to get comfortable in the relationship. I talked to her today because she called. I was asking her aunt for advice and I guess she told her and asked me to stop putting her in the middle of it which was a stupid mistake. I apologized to her and told her that I know I didn't make her feel appreciated and do enough for her.
Basically, where do I go from here? I want her back but I don't know the best path to give me the best chances. I know I need to give her space and so I am not contacting her or anything. But what else can I do to make the situation better so she will come back to me? Should I write an apology telling her I know how she felt and I am sorry and if so when should I give it to her? What else can I do?