What does your husband's consent have to do with anything? I have personally had many of the symptoms you listed. You would be able to find all of those symptoms on this site. It IS the Mirena. I don't care what the doctors say. They don't know, because they get their info fromt the drug company who denies any of this is going on. My personal doctor called and talked to Bayer. She was told that they haven't heard of anyone else having these problems, which is a load of crap because many people on this site have written to them. They will deny it all. Please look out for yourself and get it taken out. No one else except for the people on this site can possibly understand what you are going through. Good luck. We're here when you need us!