I'm really sorry this has happenned to you, but it's time that people start thinking for themselves and stop believing everything the doctors tell them.
As someone that has beaten cancer through diet, I find it very frustrating sometimes that people will go under the knife (with a 10% chance to live, stomach cancer) instead of changing their diet for 2 months. It blows my mind.
Anyway, sorry about your loss. At least here there is a good support group that can help you out with coping now, or at least knowing what to expect.