I have been seeing a man for 8 month's now who wants a friends with benefits relationship only. He been through two heartwrenching divorces & was hurt deeply four years ago by his girlfriend and decided he could live without a woman in his life since prior he always was with a woman. He's just absolutely a fantastic lover. We meet at his place once a week, spend time talking and he unwinds from work and then as he states "let's go play". He cooks dinner afterwards and there's some more talking and then I leave. He did want me to be with him on his birthday and I was with him on mine (at his place). He did get me a card that said in part that I mean alot to him in addition to a gift. He is hardworking, a homeowner, responsible, has a side business, pet lover, devoted son, has a great personality. Is it possible that with time he will change in wanting more then what it now is?