Trap, my brother would have to be the most self centered person I know. Everything is about him. He likes people to fuss over him and worry about him. He doesn't like me because I tell him to get off the pills, eat properly, and get his act together. He's 36 years old , not 15. As far as lifes problems go, he's had a pretty cushy time of it. He doctor shops so that he can get all sorts of prescription medication (there is no physical problem) he just tells them a pack of BS and they write away. Its almost as if he likes being the way he is, he wants pity not help, if you give him good advice he ignores it.
I don't want to give up on him, but I'm at a loss of how to help. I don't want to give pity because he feeds on that.