For the last 11 years of my life my mom has not been there emotionally there as much as she could of been. Don't get me wrong, she is a good mother. She took care of me physically. I notice now at 19 yrs old she says i bug her and i am annoying alot when i come to her for advice on my problems with myself, relationships. My mom is not going thur menapause yet, too young still. Her age is 37 yrs old. She is really moody most of the time and whenever i come to visit her, its seems to not be the rite time ever and she tells her stresses and frustrated out on me ALOT. How can i deal with a mother thats not emotionally there that much and how can i find ways to fill my emotional needs more soo i don't become soo dependant on others to help me out. I only like two people i feel i am can go for emotional support and that is my Counsellor and best friend. But there not always around when i need them? Any suggestions? I've tried already talking about how i feel about this and she just gives me more or less the "COLD SHOULDER"