bf #1 had his chance, he's got baggage, bf #2 is in the driver's seat. bf1 has got the kid and the jealuos wife...you don't want that. you're 39 and you gotta get this one right because there's no room for error. bf2 is 29...so what? that's not a big deal. you must be some hot stuff if you're almost 40 and still attracting a young buck!!! maybe that's the more interesting post you ought to be typing out...lol...