Insecurities in a romantic relationship question
Hey There
I find that i am a very insecure person. I find it really hard too feel really attractive in my own skin too being pregnant too. I don't really enjoy hanging out with my with my bf and doing stuff like playing video games, pool, throwing snowballs because i really can't do it as good as most people.
I feel boring and unfun being around him because of this. I don't have much physically enegry to do stuff with him either because i am pregnant too. I am inferior of his ex girlfriend because she made a rude comment on my body to my bf. That makes me feel really insecure inside.
He however did stick up for me, but it still bothers me she would do that. I find myself overanalizing the shit he does says/ does. I ask myself questions like " How come he hasn't cuddled lots with me for a week, why doesn't he compliment me after sex anymore like he use too".
We have been going out for a year and a half now. I have a counsellor, but lately she's been telling me shit i already know about insecurities and what not.
I managed to cope / work really hard with my jealously issues within a matter of 3 months. Soo i know i have faith with be able to overcome personal issues better.
I already i am aware of that, what i wanna know if how to cope/ deal with them soo it won't ruin a romantic relationship and push away my bf. What are some of your advice on dealing coping with my insecurities without the help of a cousellor, but stuff i can do by myself. Any sites, book that have helped you with your personal insecurities in a romantic relationship people?