Hey, I am not sipping fine wine and I am no "ilk" of any sort. My hero Obama is a victorious man and can't be "dripping of softness and passive ways". That's not the way how to win elections and become one of the most powerful men in the world. You are about 360 degrees off the mark (with Obama and regarding your silly stereotypes) and some of your answers in this advice columns are really devastating to the people who ask. I feel sorry for them and hope they disregard it. I read one other "advice" of yours b.t.w. so don't start thinking of writing a book now. Contemplation would do you some good and getting out of the gutter language wise.
Stereotypes of your sort are just that, meaningless chatter. You are not as interesting as you think. Our chickens are more interesting and when our roosters act up and blow up their feathers to appear larger as they are it is at least a nice spectacle of nature.