and destined to be miserable all your waking days if you continue with this disaster of a human being. but, hey...you deserve this trainwreck if you choose to stay. you obviously have low self-esteem and will bed him down even though you know he's laid another. two lost souls settling for the crumbs of life. i look into my crystal ball...and see a girl running, yes...a young woman running for her life. the life she deserves. you made a mistake, we all make 'em. the ultimate mistake is not to correct it. many a woman stands in the place that you are. few make the correct decision. you have phoned a friend...and now you must make the choice. is the guy typing this message correct...or do i feel lucky and choose yourself? we need an answer...