this is a definitive law of the jungle, friend. guests, however long it has been since your last meeting, should not ever be asked or expected to bring gifts, work for their lodging, or be put in the situation you describe. so quick you now "dislike her" because of something so petty...socks. give me a break. socks!? you know her financial situation, treat her special and ask nothing but her company. then you squawk about another guest not bringing chocolates????!!!!! lol...what kind of flophouse are you running there?