Thank you. All points noted. He is merely a parrot of those around him, like most children. I don't think I can do anything to change those things that are truly harmful to him right now. Perhaps when he lives with me full time. I'm not nearly knowledgeable enough now to try to tutor someone else. I'm only beginning to get it myself and have a long, long way to go.
I think it is important that I mention that they do not receive any State aid. My parents didn't think it fair to burden an overloaded system until such time that they (or I) can no longer afford it alone.
With regard to the toothpaste and rinse...I am the one using it and sure would like your input on it. Perhaps I'll scan the label and send that to you directly so as not to promote a product that may or may not be good for you. Although you cannot purchase it without a referral from your dentist. Not sure why, considering it is entirely herbal, but that is their policy. I actually get it from my dentist.