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is this love...that i'm feel'n...could this be love...or am i dream'n...
 
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is this love...that i'm feel'n...could this be love...or am i dream'n...


you need to hear the truth, young fella, because i've lived...oh, man have i lived! one of your generation's deepest regrets is that you jump into living arrangements with your honies way, way, way, way, too early in the relationship. you're new at this, no need to be ashamed, we all started somewhere. where you made your biggest mistake was right at the start...asking her to move in. never do that. there's a reason you "date". and it is to mature the relationship between two young lustful souls. moving in brings with it baggage, emotional hypersensitivity, negative sides of a person, financial woes, shared responsibility...hey, you just went from kissing in the front seat at the drive in movie to how will we split the rent! and let's fit some sex in there and manuever some time-wasting "normal stuff" along with seeing her without the makeup and shaving her legs...who the hell wants to see that in the morning???!!!!!

i also hear a lot of "i know i shouldn't do this but..." that's a guy who hasn't grown up yet. young guys and gals say that bilge all the time. i know i shouldn't be jealous but damnit, i am. i know i shouldn't look at her facebook, but son of a bitch, i just couldn't help myself. doesn't mean anything other than you're young and normal. don't muck it up with a live-in. don't show all your cards on the first date, first relationship, first experience in real life. live your life, man! correct this critical error and let her go...now. she's not the one. you drank and did the rihanna on her. that's you, not somebody you don't remember. she'll never forget what you did to her. i won't forget what you did to her. hitting a woman is an automatic disqualifier in any relationship, case closed, guilty as charged. that should've been your worse hour, and hopefully it was. your punishment is that you lose her forever. learn from it. treat women like a new-found treasure and cherish the good ones, dump the tarnished ones. there's plenty of both. that's dating 101.

my motto for all women is that they, not the guy, need to choose wisely out there and you're giving this one a stellar reason not to choose you. this needs to sink in...real deep. from today on you need to wise up, stand up straight and tall, hug that sweetheart, kiss her on the cheek, and let her walk out of your life. that's what i'd tell her to do to you. but i'm also setting you straight on the path to a future of being the guy we need more of in this world...guys who make a mistake once and never repeat it again. those guys are in short supply. heed my advice...you know i'm right...
 

 
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