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Need some advice!


I invited an old girl-friend from Europe with whom I am on and off in contact since about 12 years.
After she booked her flight (she stays here 14 days) I urged her to open a frequent flyer program as she flies from Europe to Hawaii.
I must have irritated her with that because afterward she kind of doesn't e-mail me any more. I feel so hurt after opening my heart and home to her that I dread this visit now. I left her a short phone message and got back a short e-mail that she is busy and will get back to me later and since then ( a week) I don't hear from her. I feel like she totally withdrew from me and now think she might be too much of a narcissist for me to be able to enjoy her visit. I have recurring thoughts of suggesting a cheap hotel to her if she isn't able to maintain a kind of friendliness with me. I am quite vulnerable to such behaviour and because haven't seen her so long, don't really know how she is right now. She is on a very tight budget, therefore I invited her to stay with us and so she could afford Hawaii in the first place. How can I give her the hint, that you have to be a bit friendly to people if they invite you?
 

 
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