Hi Tracy: I really appreciate you responding. Yes I am a Sag & I am 41 years old but I dont look my age. I have been going thru major change it seems for the last 5 years. I have been sick w/Fibromyalgia for the last 2 years. In 1997 I moved from Chicago to Atlanta & have been here in Atlanta since then. Before I got sick I was very ambitious & I thought nothing could stop me. I am a Realtor & am just now starting to work again since I became ill. Also I have a much younger man in my life who wants out of the relationship because I have a brand new home along with house expenses that he is not ready to handle so he's leaving. This means that I will be taking care of the household by myself now. My family lives in Chicago but have been very supportive of me in every way. They feel he is holding me back & that I can do better by myself & be alot happier w/out him. PS I use to be out going unti the sickness & now I am getting stronger & hopefully will be able to pursue my dreams of success & happiness again. But a part of me is scared to be alone even though I am a loner. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thanks