Re: Do I express my feelings or...?
I had a friend for 6 years and one day she quit calling. I called her many times but she refused to answer the phone. I got mad and upset but said nothing. I figured she knew something more than me. I told another woman what happened not backbiting her but just I was confussed. I continue to be cortial when I saw her but not pressing the subject of the humiliation and rejection. One day as fate would have it we were brought together and she told me what happened. I was living in a house for free and that woman went to my friend and screamed at her over a trivial matter, knowing I lived in their home she chose to be quiet and not anger me as I would have a big fight with the woman, so for six months she kept it quiet.
After I moved out of the house she told me what happened and made me promise not to tell her I knew. Because of the woman's silence I was saved a huge problem at the house where I was staying although it cost me dearly with my friend for six months. We are now closer than ever and she is the one that is my angel right now and she has done more for me than anyone.
So telling them is not always the best, sometimes silence is better. We don't talk about those days, we just respect each others space. Sometimes if we had talked about being angry we would of broken our friendship and gone our separate ways. Because of the huge sacrifice on both parts we are now closer than ever.
SARA