I agree, your husband doesn't deserve it, just like mine didn't deserve it either... These two are probably the most important relationships in your life (they are for me, i have a daughter too), so please don't discount the importance... I've been doing a lot of thinking about this too. My poor husband loves coming home again (I had mirena out for 9 months), I still have mood swings but I learned to recognize when I do and I try to minimize their impact on everyone and apologize right away. I am not preaching, sorry if it sounds that way, this is something i had to deal with too. Snapping at my daughter and being super mean to my husband. Good luck.