For about 6 months I have known that guy. We have become close the past 3 months now. We used to get along just great and were able to talk about just anything. Now since we became more intimate things are harder for me. Since I come from a pretty abusive childhood and marriage (verbally/emotionally) it is hard for me to think positive at times and he is just the opposite. To make it short he keeps telling me that I put everything into a negative light. He seems tired of it. I don't know how to change the way I braught up so that I wont be such a negative thinker. I feel hurt and am afraid that he gives up on me. I want to change so much and be just as positive as he is and believe all these loving things he keeps telling me. It bothers him so much that I don't believe and turn everything around - into the negative. For example: he talks about a woman's body/weight.........and I know I am not slim either. How am I supposed to take that? Isn't that supposed to make me feel insecure now too when I hear him talking like that?
What am I supposed to do? I am so worried that he will quit on me.