just tell me ....even if it is that I just need to read through all the forum....and I'll just experienment my way through....because....truth is....I do have too much to do right now, and just taking care of me, after years of 'neglect' is taking a LOT of time...so, help if you can, and if it is 'all up to me'....I'll figure out what I can and bag the rest until that elusive 'time' becomes available.
I am so grateful that I even care. So much to learn, and with all the water I drink, so much peeing to do. Just trying to make the best use of All my resources.