Thanks Rose, and your right, as much as I hate saying that. I thought about this a lot last night, seeing as how it is the only thing thats really been on my mind, and when I thought about it, I realized that I was being selfish, I mean she said to me that she just wanted to be friends, and so apparently she doesn't want anything else from me, and me saying that I wouldn't accept that and keep trying for her, I am only making myself happy, whereas I would be ruining what happiness she has with her boyfriend. And no disrepect to your advice, I mean your advice sounds right, and despite what I just said, but me, my instinct, its not going to allow her to just go, its going to be really hard to move on, next to impossible.