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In love with a girl who has a boyfriend


Here's my problem, and to tell you now I am 16 and this isn't "puppy love" or some might say infatuation but its not, I met her at a camp over the summer, my camp leaders and some of the other kids told me that they could tell she liked me. I will admit that I was physcially attracted to her to start it, and also at first I didn't know she had a boyfriend, also even though they told me she liked me, she never pursued it, I am the one that pursued it, so she did respect her boyfriend enough to not do anything, if that matters to anybody, it does to me. One thing that probably affected this story is after camp I had to go to my dad who lives in New York for 6 weeks, we have been talking a lot I mean a lot, I could have swore I had unlimited text, but I didn't and lets put it this way, it will take me 2 months pay to pay off my phone bill now, and anyways just out of nowhere she stops replying to me, or it takes her a day to answer. Also just because I don't want to backspace, we did talk on the phone not just text, but (she is a year older than me) with her going to college class and work we can't talk all the time. Anyways I finally get a hold of her and we talk for about 20 minutes or so, and by this point she knows I really care for her, but she comes out and says that she has a good thing with her boyfriend and that she thinks we should just be friends. What confuses me is that for 6 weeks she treated me and acted like she wanted to be with me, and then just drops this bomb on me.I need to know though is what to do really, I mean do I respect her and just try to be friends, or keep pushing for her, I can tell you now just being friends with her will kill me, if I follow that path, just seeing her and knowing that somehow I blew my shot, I couldn't live with that, but if it is the right thing to do I would give it a shot. I know I am in love with her, I admit I have thrown that word around, and I may have felt something for another girl once, but I know that was puppy love, what I feel for her is so much stronger, I would do anything to be with her. Any advice?, or anymore Info you need just reply please.
 

 
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