"When women find out I've had so many miscarriages or stillbirths they say, 'It must have been meant to be!' What stupid exceptance! I want to say...'Don't except that as a truth! Investigate as to what causes these things to happen!'"
Very true - I would abstract it out and apply that attitude to anything.
God built our bodies to work properly. If something's not working, we need to figure it out. Unfortunately, if the doctors don't know the answer, that's the end of the line. Perhaps we can hope more people will find resources like CZ and adopt the same attitude and understanding as you. Great post.