A good (rhetorical) question would be, just what ARE the two of you 'supporting' by your posts in this thread?
To most readers, it would seem that you're supporting & exhibiting --
--personal fault finding
--disrespect and improper usage of Curezone (and disrespect to the readers/posters waste their time clicking on posts, hoping to find information and instead, finding public bickering)
--inability to handle accusations in any type of a manner that could be considered mature
--evidence of (hopefully) both of your worst sides
Curezone has a Personal Conflicts forum for this type of behavior. But it would seem to me that if you have differences to work through (and that either of you truly desire to solve a problem), that you would stop wasting Curezone space (and other posters time), and work out your differences via private email.
The drama of it all has taken away valuable time for many posters. Please, if you don't respect yourselves enough to either solve your differences privately (or bury them), at least respect the rest of us enough to take it to a forum (Personal Conflicts) that nobody bothers to read.
And for heavens sakes, please don't respond with another barrage of "But, 49156, he did this! and she did that! but he did that first! but she started it!"