Hey you responded to one of my posts in that post on the sex page and I totally agree with you. I went there because they were talking about commercial sites and blah blah blah they mentioned the sex site or something like that, anyway it bothered me as well to see some of those posts marked as R's - maybe the Webmaster was saying holy crap check out this loser ?? I dont no some of the posts were really freaky is all that I can say. Poor girl, I'd probably have to ditch the bf- I probably would never look at him the same again.. but thats me.