I'm sorry, I guess I wasn't very clear, although Catlin got the point. My point was, I can see no reason to go onto a forum just to make nasty statements about another person and to violate, and I am very sensitive about this, website "manners," if nothing else, by revealing names without permission.
My post was rather rude as well, so I shouldn's have posted like that, but I really think enough is enough of this drop in and "accuse" sort of post. I'm sorry that I offended others. I am also sorry to the poster to whom it was directed. There were other ways of wording that.