and i can totally sympathize with you about not being able to tell anyone. this forum is the only place that knows about my fasting. there is not a single solitary person in my life that would understand or support my fasting.
i also had a question for you... does your daughter notice or ask why you aren't eating? my daughter is the same age as yours and so far, she hasn't noticed or paid any attention to my lack of eating, which i'm very glad about! i'm not sure how i would explain this to a three year old :)