I'm not sure why or how this is happening to my bf, but it's been happening to him for at least the past 5 years. I wasn't sure where to post this so I picked a few different forums.
This morning he told me how the strangest thing happened to him during the night (we live together and share the same bed. He went to sleep and was very comfortable through the night until about 4 am he woke up hungry and ate and went back to bed. He said he felt fine and was falling asleep, but when he fell asleep, he was really awake, and he couldn't move or talk-he can just look around and listen. Meanwhile, I was asleep next to him completely unaware. This happened about 5 times. He said it takes a lot of energy to get out of it, and finally he tried to go back to sleep and then it would happen again. One of the last times, as he was falling asleep, he was awoken by extremely loud music blasting in his ear, but he couldn't jump up or get away from it, he just tried to fight his way out of the trance.
This is really worrying me because I've read up on psychic vampires a little bit, and it would seem I am unknowingly sucking his life energy from him. Even though this has been happening to him before we were together.
He's been suffering from very annoying insomnia since I've known him pretty much every night. We did a 2 month parasite, bowel, and toxinout cleanse, a month ago because I thought his insomnia could be health related. I'm vegan, so he never gets to eat crap food when we're together or when we get groceries, but he still eats meat and cheese and seldomly eats junk food. Next on my list are herbs to help the insomnia.
But it seems it might not even be physical health as I thought. This "trance" occurs about every 3-6 months. He couldn't even really explain it to me today, so I just wrote down his experience the best I could from my understanding, even though I have no idea what this could actually be like.
I was trying to recap what I dreamt about last night to see if subconsciously I could've been doing this, and this doesn't sound very good, but I think I tried shooting him with a gun because I learned he was seeing someone else. This is a very silly thing for me to dream about, seeing as I trust him 100% and when he goes out with his friends, I don't ask him a million questions about what he did, etc. I know that I have my own insecurities but I would always trust him as far as our relationship goes. In my dream last night,I also remember being outside and it was very muddy and frogs were everywhere, and as I chased one, it kept becoming larger and larger, until it was big, ugly, and brown.
If not the dream, I know that yesterday I had an extremely draining and exhausting day. It turned out to be a very bad day for me. I was at school for twelve hours with barely any food and it was extremely mentally draining, then my car wouldn't start, etc., etc. So maybe after that very stressful day I could've unknowingly sucked his energy from him. Even though I woke up this morning extremely tired and had to study for an exam, and now here I am.
Please someone help me make sense of all this, I feel horrible if it is actually me doing this to him.