Up on the top left of your curezone page there is an Inbox link. Click on that, it might have a number next to it. Make sure you're logged in first, if you have problems with that like I do it might log you out at various times just for fun. ;)
You can also click on the 'saigonamour' link on any of her posts. It will give you the option of a private message using the curezone mailbox system or you can send an email if that person allows it.