He blew it! The greatest turn on for a man is a responsive, excited, agressive (in the way you expressed it), uninhibited turned on woman. This is much more important than how a woman looks. Sometimes we men miss the subtle hints that you women give that you want to have some real fun. Sometimes we miss the not so subtle (which this was a direct) request to participate in crazy sex with you. Was he asleep? I bet he regrets his lack of response. I know that I would. The only thing more powerful than enthusiasm is the lack of it. I certainly feel so disappointed for you.