people can have different or opposing viewpoints and not be cruel or condescending to eachother -- that is possible for you, for me, for whomever(and for this world).
--it is possible to not agree and still be at peace with eachother.(look at davizona, for example).
it is possible at our most primal and natural state of being to be still and at peace in the midst of seeming conflict.
in that, may you take the deepest care of yourself.