It would be nice to think that everyone deserves to be happy or can achieve it...but circumstances dictate. You are dealt cards and either fold or play the game. I realize it's hard to hear from a stranger, but I've been around. I've seen things you haven't. Your girlfriend is probably going to have issues for the rest of her natural life. Do you really want to put your own happiness, your future family's happiness at risk? I wouldn't. It's harsh, I know, been called harsh many a time...won't be the last time, but you know what? I'm a happy guy who is surrounded by a well-adjusted, happy family. And life is good! You want that. Don't ever let others tell you that it's a good thing to settle for a problematic, agony-filled life of bi-polar nightmares. You want to be the guy who pulls her out of her hellish remembrances of past events. Noble, but odds are it won't pay off in the end, and you'll waste a lot of prescious time on someone who isn't "the one". You're young, you've got to hitch your wagons to women without all the mental baggage of past tragedies. Life really is too short. She doesn't want sex now...why would she want sex later? She'll want less and less and push you further and further away. Then she'll break down and pull you back in, only to repeat the cycle days later. Who wants that???? Not me! Believe me, you don't want that! That's not living. The women, many of whom I personally like on Curezone, are going to call me a bastard...you just watch. But, from one guy to another...get out of this disaster. Cry, have a few beers, lay on the couch for a week...whatever you have to do to snap out of this, you gotta do for your own mental health.