Hey thanks for the words about RA and fertility! You weren't speaking out of turn at all. Actually though, supposedly the "problem" is with my husband, although I'm SURE that even if he didn't have a problem, that what you said about RA would still be true. So, it's probably both of us. Even if I ever did get pregnant, we would probably still adopt, just to have a family as quickly as possible since we are both over 40. But really, thanks for your advice!!