glad to hear that a 40 year veteran has it figured the way i do. i would add that going in public is not nearly as much of problem any more because i am so regular and have very good control(those massive bms are a sign you are simply processing too much bulk - eat better, not more). also, the handicapped stall has the hand rails in case you cant or dont want to wait.
good post. it will take society a hundred years to get things changed around.