like I said, I dont look at much of what goes on on ANY of these forums as negative or argumentative. I see much of it as curiosity, although sometimes a few, even myself, can get somewhat forceful. But hey, if you cant stand up for yourself and your beliefs, then you wont gain any respect for yourself or what you believe in. That doesnt help anybody. Yes, I've had to delete posts myself on my forum, we ALL do at times. But if someone wants to come onboard and question what we believe, we dont slam the door on him and hide.