Re: Holiday Season

i have been engaged to someone for 4 years since before we graduated h.s. he is very jealous and gets angry when i go to my college classes bc he thinks im talking to other men. i just found out from a friend that he has been talking about our sex life to mutual friends of ours and hes said that he might as well be doing it by himself because im not good in bed. he wont tell me where all of his money goes and he complained because i made him sign a lease agreement. he said that i was just doing it to try to control him and how he spends his money. i think i might be in the middle of an abusive relationship. there is not one thing i can do right even though i work 2 jobs and go to college full time. he has a part time job and doesnt go to classes. my mother never said anything bad about him but my sisters both told me that he was a loser.i think they are right. how do i leave this relationship? so much of my money is tied up in our rent and bills and he tells me that he will die if i ever leave him. i broke up with him 2 years ago and he called me after he had taken a bunch of pills to kill himself. im so afraid that he will kill himself if i leave? Tweet