Yes you are correct in many ways. I have given her a lot of power in the relationship over the last year. It's been hard not to. Her big issue seems to be that she feels like she can not count on me as a solid partner. If she needs something done she can't count on me to achieve it according to her standards. I do not agree with this. There are times, like many men, I can be less skilled at multi-tasking things. But, I've been pretty damn good about a lot of this stuff. I've really taken it seriously and focused on it as important to her. I could not just let this slide and put off a feeling that I am above this concern, as it relates to the partnership. I just feel her expectations are unrealistic and dramatic. She really hen pecks this sort of stuff and this makes the situation ten times worse. It builds resentment and puts some anxiety around it too.